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| Introduction | 
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| CHAPTER ONE. Identity: I Am Not Always the Same Person | 
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I Am Not Always the Same Person | 
 
 
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Girls Just Didn't Go to College | 
 
 
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Gifts That I Chose for Myself | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER TWO. Home: I Was Born in East Texas | 
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How My Mother Got Her Washing Machine | 
 
 
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Keeping House for My Mother | 
 
 
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Chores, Chores, Endless Chores | 
 
 
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A Lesson for Young Brides | 
 
 
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Horses, Friends, and Cleaning Out the Stalls | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER THREE. Work: Making Something That Lasted | 
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Making Something That Lasted | 
 
 
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Clerking in My Dad's General Store | 
 
 
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"I'm Doing the Best I Can" | 
 
 
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District 23, Speedway School | 
 
 
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Southern Belle: A Full-Time Job | 
 
 
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An Office in the Courthouse | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER FOUR. Family: Grandmother and the Pirates | 
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Grandmother and the Pirates | 
 
 
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My Father and the Value of Money | 
 
 
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My Mother and the Pigeons | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER FIVE. LOVE: 'Til We Meet Again | 
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Those Golden Days at Graceland | 
 
 
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A Keepsake Penny, and Love Refound | 
 
 
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"I Will Promise You a Rose Garden" | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER SIX. LOSS: The Strength to Survive | 
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The Day My Childhood Died | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER SEVEN. Living Fully: I Still Had My Two Dollars | 
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Decoration Day, Fairy Tales, and the Ice Cream Wagon | 
 
 
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I Still Had My Two Dollars | 
 
 
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My Bonneville Convertible | 
 
 
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The Happiest Day of My Life | 
 
 
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The Day My Daughter Walked | 
 
 
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A Summer with Granny Rylee | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER EIGHT. Witness: Ordinary Lives, Extraordinary Events | 
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How Would I Measure Up under Fire? | 
 
 
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Rommel's Hannibal Connection | 
 
 
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Not a Dry Eye in the House | 
 
 
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An Army Wife in Postwar Germany | 
 
 
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An Ordinary Day: An Extraordinary Event | 
 
 
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When the Russians Invaded Czechoslovakia | 
 
 
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| CHAPTER NINE. Legacies: "I Wish You Could Have Known My Grandma" | 
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Family Books, Family Treasures | 
 
 
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The Legacy of the Two Lauras | 
 
 
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A Letter to a Young Person | 
 
 
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"I Wish You Could Have Known My Grandma" | 
 
 
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| Biographical Notes | 
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| About Story Circle Network | 
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